All your questions - Answered
Is there any evidence this actually works?
Yep and not just in a “trust me” kinda way. Somatic practices are grounded in psychotherapy, neuroscience, trauma theory, and body-based research. When you bring the body into the healing process, things start to shift in really profound ways. It’s not just “woo-woo” it’s science with soul.
Who do you work with?
I work with anyone brave enough to come home to themselves. That includes the tender-hearted, the pleasure-seekers, the overthinkers, the rebels, the ones who feel too much or not enough. My space is open to all genders and bodies. You don’t have to be “fixed” or “have it all figured out.” You just have to be curious and open to exploring.
Can I stop or change direction during a session?
Absolutely. At any time. This is your space, your body, your process and nothing happens without your full, enthusiastic yes. Consent isn’t a one-time checkbox; it’s an ongoing conversation. Whether you need a breather, a pause, a pivot, or a dance break we follow your lead, always.
Will we talk about kink? Fetishes? Taboo stuff?
Oh, absolutely but only if you want to! This is a judgment-free zone where kink, fantasies, fetishes, and all those juicy taboo bits are 100% welcome and all play a very important parts of the human erotic playground. Bring your curiosities, your quirks, and your “too weird?” questions. Spoiler: nothing’s too weird here.
Can this help with things like low libido, numbness, or disconnection?
Totally. Low libido, numbness, and disconnection aren’t flaws, it’s information. From a somatic perspective, these are signs your nervous system might be protecting you in some way. We don’t override that. We honour it, explore it, and invite safety, curiosity, and pleasure to slowly return. Healing doesn’t happen through pushing, it happens through permission.
I don’t live in Sydney. Can we still work together?
Totally! I offer sessions over Zoom, so you can explore all the juicy stuff from the comfort of your own space.
Do you have a question not on this list?
Please get in touch with me via my email sexcoachwiles@gmail.com
Or book a free 10 minute consultation call today